As a Hypnotherapy practioner working near to Banbury, Oxfordshire, I get to work with genuine people who are stressed and feeling out of control. This is just a gentle reminder that today November 6th is National Stress Awareness Day. There are several contributory factors that get our stress going.
One of the biggies is expectation. Expectation of others, expectation of an event and importantly our expectation of ourselves. We expect to produce more than is practically possible. We expect to achieve more of ourselves. This leads on to disappointment and a feeling that we aren’t good enough. Which in turn knocks on to how we speak to ourselves. When we feel we are not good enough we use words and phrases like I should, I’m so stupid, ridiculous, crazy, disappointing, lacking, I’m stressed, try harder blah blah blah.
From a neurological point of view what that actually does is trigger the stress chemical in our brain known as cortisone. Too much cortisone can make us feel and keeps us in a flat, uninspired, demotivated and depressed frame of mind.
To quickly remedy this it is necessary to:
- Feel and be more understanding and easier on yourself.
- Be more realistic and mindful about how much you can achieve on a daily basis.
- Keep things in perspective and proportion
Be Your Own Mind Coach
Remember that approximately 2 out of 5 people experience the feeling that they are not good enough. Many of the clients I work with have what is termed as the imposter syndrome. They feel they are in their jobs, by the skin of their teeth. That they are fraudulent and will get rumbled any minute. It is a common psychological condition.
To help change your long term ingrained thought process change the way you talk to yourself. Use nurturing and motivating words and phrases, such as easily, naturally, comfortably, happily, achieve, successfully, dynamically, inspiring, productive, calm, peacefully etc. By using these words they will help to coach and reframe your mind to believe in your skills and abilities in a more realistic way.
When we use positive language we release the feel good chemical serotonin which floods our system and gets us into a happier, more uplifted frame of mind. Essentially helping us to get more of a grip on life.
Hypnosis calms and reframes
Hypnosis is excellent for stress related conditions Over the past 10 years I have specialised in working with clients to resolve their stress related anxiety, confidence issues, and insomnia, to get back in control to enjoy a happier fulfilled lifestyle.
By entering a deep relaxing state we can change how you feel about yourself and reframe with a dynamic hypnotic suggestion that calms, relaxes and improves how you feel about yourself and your distressing out of control behaviour.
Three Easy steps to feeling better
1. Take frequent time out away from your desk. Stretch and drink plenty of fresh water. Cut right back on tea and coffee
2. Go outside and experience the great outdoors for at least 15 minutes during the day.
3. Walk and breath to get as much fresh oxygen as possible. Oxygen helps to calm you down.
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or a free confidential chat just give me a call: 0845 833 9733 or email nicola@nicolamenage.co.uk